- QUICK THINKIN' TRINITY..
YOU HAVE ASKED ME A GOOD QUESTION AFTER SEVERAL YEARS..
capt ajit vadakayil
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I HOLD THE WORLD RECORD FOR COMMANDING SHIPS CREWED BY UNITED NATIONS .. RESPONDING FOR MATURE CONFLICT RESOLUTION AND TEAMWORK IS MY TURF..
NOBODY ON THIS PLANET CAN DO IT BETTER THAN CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL, WHO NEVER SUFFERED FOOLS GLADLY.. RATHER HE BLED THEM
REMEMBER AS A SHIP CAPTAIN, I WORE EVERY POSSIBLE HAT.. LITERALLY JUGGLED THEM..
I WAS A CONDOR, NOT A FROG IN THE WELL
I HAVE NOT SEEN A SINGLE GOOD BOOK ON LEADERSHIP TILL TODAY.. THE WRITERS ARE NOT EVEN "ONE TRICK PONIES"
http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.com/2010/12/captain-sleeps-tonight-capt-ajit.html
REMEMBER AS A SHIP CAPTAIN, I WORE EVERY POSSIBLE HAT.. LITERALLY JUGGLED THEM..
I WAS A CONDOR, NOT A FROG IN THE WELL
I HAVE NOT SEEN A SINGLE GOOD BOOK ON LEADERSHIP TILL TODAY.. THE WRITERS ARE NOT EVEN "ONE TRICK PONIES"
http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.com/2010/12/captain-sleeps-tonight-capt-ajit.html
REACTION COMES FROM MOOLADHARA CHAKRA ( SURVIVAL SEAT ) , RESPONSE COMES FROM THE SAHASRARA CHAKRA ( WISDOM SEAT ).
RESPOND LIKE A CONSCIOUS MAN TO LIFEs PROBLEMS, DO NOT REACT LIKE AN ANIMAL.
A REACTION IS TYPICALLY KNEE JERK QUICK, WITHOUT MUCH THOUGHT, TENSE AND AGGRESSIVE.
A RESPONSE ON THE OTHER HAND USUALLY COMES MORE SLOWLY AFTER THE INITIAL FLOOD OF ADRENALINE HAS PASSED. IT IS POSITIVE.
A RESPONSE IS THOUGHT OUT, CALM AND NON-THREATENING. REACTIONS STOKE THE FIRES OF CONFLICT
A REACTION IS TYPICALLY QUICK, WITHOUT MUCH THOUGHT, TENSE AND AGGRESSIVE. A RESPONSE IS THOUGHT OUT, CALM AND NON-THREATENING.
A REACTION TYPICALLY NEGATIVE PROVOKES MORE REACTIONS – PERPETUATING A LONG LINE OF HATEFULNESS WITH NOTHING ACCOMPLISHED.
WHEN YOU REACT, IN FIGHT OR FLIGHT MORE, EMOTIONS TAKE A CENTRAL ROLE.. WE LOSE CONTROL. REACTING IS SPORADIC AND EMOTIONAL.
A REACTION IS BASED IN THE MOMENT AND DOESN'T TAKE INTO CONSIDERATION LONG TERM EFFECTS OF WHAT YOU DO OR SAY.
A REACTION IS SURVIVAL-ORIENTED AND ON SOME LEVEL A DEFENSE MECHANISM. IT MIGHT TURN OUT OKAY BUT OFTEN A REACTION IS SOMETHING YOU REGRET LATER.
COLLECT YOURSELF. BEFORE REACTING, PAUSE AND ALLOW YOUR INITIAL EMOTIONAL REACTION TO PASS. ...
OUR PASSION NEEDS TO BE CENTERED ON PURPOSE, NOT AN UNEXPECTED, UNPRODUCTIVE STIMULUS.
IT IS NOT NECESSARY TO REACT TO EVERYTHING YOU NOTICE. YOUR EGO LANDS YOU IN A WORLD OF HURT..
HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF, DON’T DISCARD YOUR SELF RESPECT , REMAIN STABLE.. THERE IS NO NEED TO BELITTLE OTHERS TO UPLIFT YOURSELF.
REACTIONS POWERED BY EGO DESTROYS PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS..
THROUGH THE MOUTH, EGO LIVES IN WORDS.
A MAN OF HONOR AVOIDS A FIGHT.. FOOLS LOVE TO QUARREL.. THERE IS NO NEED TO OVER-REACT. YOU CAN SEE THAT IN HINDI BIGG BOSS.
CUNTS WHO REACT FIGHT WITH A MAD DOG AT MIDNIGHT FOR RIGHT OF PASSAGE. PEOPLE LOSE SELF RESPECT BY TRYING TO SAVE THEIR EGO..
WHEN YOU REACT WITH NO REACTION –IT IS RESPONSE. INDIFFERENCE BREEDS WHEN YOU NEITHER REACT OR RESPOND.. LEADERS MUST NEVER BE INDIFFERENT..
AS A LEADER I NEVER CARED FOR POPULARITY MEDALS..
REMEMBER NEVER TAKE THINGS PERSONAL WHEN YOU ARE A LEADER.. MOST PEOPLE ARE JUST TRYING TO SURVIVE BY LEADING THEIR OWN LIVES .. EVERYTHING IS NOT ABOUT “YOU”.
REACTIONS BY BRAINLESS MANAGERS STOKE MASSIVE FIRES AND CAUSE STRIKES.. LEADERS RESPOND AND REMAIN IN CONTROL AT ALL TIMES.
THEY CAN RE CONCILIATE FOR HEALING AND PERMANENT PEACE. PEACE DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE CAPITULATED, YOU ARE STILL STRONG.
WHEN JEALOUSY IS A REACTION , YOU WILL SELF DESTRUCT SOONER THAN LATER
PEOPLE WHO RESPOND DO NOT SPLIT FAALTHU HAIRS— LIKE HOW YOU SEEN ON BIGG BOSS REALITY SHOWS. YOU WASTE YOUR POWER ..
REACTION IS OFTEN AGGRESSIVE. RESPONSE ALLOWS FOR ASSERTIVENESS WITHOUT AGGRESSION.
PEOPLE STEEPED IN SPIRITUALITY NEVER REACT KNEE JERK.
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LEARN TO BE IN THE MOMENT.. THEN THE PAST HAS NOW POWER OVER YOU.. SO SAYS 6000 YEAR OLD BHAGWAD GITA.. FUTURE HAPPENS IN THE NOW.
THERE IS NO NEED TO SURRENDER TO FALSEHOODS.
TUNE IN TO YOUR FEELINGS. ...
RESPONSES CONTAIN REASONING. RESPONDING IS GUIDED LESS BY EMOTION AND MORE BY LOGIC AND WIDOM
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A DIPLOMAT RESPONDS.. HE CAN AVOID COSTLY AND DESTRUCTIVE WARS..
A COUPLE CAN AVOID DIVORCE WITHOUT DESTROYING THE LIVES OF THEIR CHILDREN.. YOUR RESPONSE TO A SITUATION HAS THE POWER TO CHANGE THE SITUATION.
DO NOT JUMP INTO CONCLUSIONS ON BASIS ON FAALTHU ASSUMPTIONS POWERED BY SCANTY INFORMATION..
NO RESPONSE IF A RESPONSE AND IS VERY POWERFUL AGAINS DESH DROHIS WHO TRY TO PROVOKE..
Read both parts .
ANGER CORRODES THE VESSEL MORE THAN ON WHAT IT IS POURED. PUT YOUR BRAIN INTO GEAR BEFORE YOU PUT YOUR MOUTH INTO MOTION.
GOOD PARENTING IS TEACHING A CHILD TO RESPOND,, TO REMAIN IN CONTROL OF CHOICES
DO NOT LET YOUR EMOTIONS CLOUD AND DISABLE YOUR INTELLECT. HORMONE DRIVEN PMS LADEN WOMEN FALL IN THIS CATEGORY.. YOU WOULD HAVE SEEN SEVERAL PMS LADEN WOMEN LEADING MEN IN INDIAN POLITICS
DON’T BE A PRISONER TO THE PAST.. BE A PIONEER TO THE FUTURE.
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THE BEST WAY TO PREDICT YOUR FUTURE IS TO CREATE IT. WHAT CONSUMES YOUR MIND CONTROLS IT..
SOUL AWAKENS ONLY WHEN EGO DIES..
YOU HAVE TO LET GO WHO YOUR WERE TO BECOME WHO YOU WANNA BE
PEOPLE WHO DO SVADHYAYA NEVER REACT KNEE JERK
PEOPLE SOAKED IN SPIRITUALITY WHO DO SVADHAYAYA DO NOT BURN OUT..
A TEACHER DOES NOT TEACH CONFLICT RESOLUTION.. BUT A MENTOR DOES.. I INTRODUCED MENTORING AT SEA
ADVERSITY DOES NOT BUILD CHARACTER, RATHER IT REVEALS IT . CONFLICT CAN DESTROY A TEAM.
CONFLICT IS INEVITABLE IN LIFE , ENERGY AND TIME WASTING COMBAT IS OPTIONAL .
CONFLICT IS INEVITABLE IN LIFE , ENERGY AND TIME WASTING COMBAT IS OPTIONAL .
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CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL
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What is the difference between reacting to a situation and responding to it.
Thank you