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SELF PITY, THE PRELUDE TO SUICIDE - CAPT AJIT VADAKAYIL

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SELF PITY IS AN EMOTION

SELF PITY IS ADDICTIVE AND MOST DESTRUCTIVE

IT GIVES MOMENTARY PLEASURE  AND SEPARATES THE VICTIM FROM REALITY

IF SELF PITY FLOWS DOWN IN TEARS IT IS GOOD..

BUT IF THE HEART HARDENS , IT LEADS TO SUICIDE AND THE VICTIM FEELS GOOD TO SELF DESTRUCT ON HER OWN TERMS

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NY THE AGE OF 18 SUMAN ATTEMPED THREE SUICIDES.. SHE HAS EVERYTHING GOING FPOR HER—ATTRACTIVE, RICH, POPULAR.

SELF PITY IS AN INDEFENSIBLE  MUTILATION OF THE SOUL.   YOU WALLOW,  BLAME AND JUSTIFY..  IT IS A PARADOX THAT IT GIVES YOU PLEASURE..  IT IS AS SNUG AS A FEATHER MATTRESS.  DYING IS NOT A SIN, BUT LIVING IS.

YOU ATTACT NEGATIVITY.   NEGATIVITY BECOMES YOUR OXYGEN

AMAJOR PART OF INTROSPECTION IS IDENTIFYING SELF DESTRUCTION DUE TO SELF PITY

SELF PITY KEEPS YOU IMMOBILIZED, SO THAT YOUR FUTURE WILL BE NO DIFFERENT FROM YOUR PAST

SELF PITY IS A SIN, IT IS LITERALLY “LIVING SUICIDE “ .. IT IS A MALIGANT DISEASE WHICH CORRODES YOUR INNARDS

BY INTROSPECTION YOU CAN TRIAGULATE SELF PITY..   IT IS IMPERATIVE TO BLOW OUT THE CANCLES FROM THE SELF PITY CAKE. 

READ YOUR THOUGHTS AND UNDERSTAND WHEN YOU ARE OVERDOING YOUR WORRIES IN A FAALTHU MANNER

SELF PITY IS THE MOST DESPICABLE FORM OF COWARDICE 

WHEN YOU EMPTY OUT YOUR GRAIL OF SELF PITY, IT MUST BE FILLED WITH GRATITUDE.

AS PER OUR UPANISHADS AND BHAGAVAD GITA, SELF PITY IS SPIRITUAL SUICIDE..   CHOOSE SELF ESTEEM , NOT SELF PITY.    CHOOSE SELF RESPONSIBILITY ,,   DEPRESSION IS UNFOCUSED SELF PITY..

PROLONGED SELF-PITY WILL MAKE YOU  RESENT LIFE MORE.  YOU ARE NOW PRONE TO SUICIDAL TENDENCIES.

YOU ARE SPINNING A CHAKRA VYUH ( WEB )  THAT WILL SOON TRAP YOURSELF. MORE THAN THE TOUGH TIME, THIS WAY OF THINKING IS GOING TO COST YOUR LIFE ITSELF.

LIFE IS MEANT TO LIVED. NOT TO DEVELOP NEGATIVE EMOTIONS AND SUFFER.

IF YOU KEEP DELVING ON RESENTMENT, YOU ARE DESTROYING YOUR REMAINING CHANCE TO LIVE YOUR LIFE. 

VICTIM MENTALITY NAY PERSECUTION MANIA IS VERY ADDICTIVE AND PLEASURABLE TO A MORBID MIND.

WHEN YOU KEEP TALKING ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS AND HOW YOU HAVE BEEN WRONGED, YOU FIND A PLEASURE IN IT.

NOTHING CAN HAPPEN IN OUR LIFE WITHOUT OUR CONSENT 

IF CERTAIN UNDESIRABLE  THINGS HAPPEN IN OUR LIFE, IT ONLY MEANS WE ARE LETTING IT HAPPEN. SO IDEALLY WE SHOULD HANDLE THE CONSEQUENCES AND MOVE ON.

PEOPLE WHO WALLOW IN SELF PITY AND THE MOST UNGRATEFUL AND SELF CENTERED PEOPLE

 SELF PITY IS A NARCOTIC A MILLION TIMES MORE POTENT THAN HEROIN OR LSD 

SAY NO TO SELF PITY—ALWAYS


http://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.com/2021/11/suicides-hope-this-too-shall-pass-capt.html


https://ajitvadakayil.blogspot.com/2022/01/catharsis-by-way-of-tears-secret.html

 

SELF PITY IS QUICK SAND..













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